1 Timothy , CHAPTER 5
Do not rebuke an older man, but appeal to him as a father. Treat younger men as brothers,
older women as mothers, and younger women as sisters with complete purity.
Honor widows who are truly widows.
But if a widow has children or grandchildren, let these first learn to perform their religious duty to their own family and to make recompense to their parents, for this is pleasing to God.
The real widow, who is all alone, has set her hope on God and continues in supplications and prayers night and day.
But the one who is self-indulgent is dead while she lives.
Command this, so that they may be irreproachable.
And whoever does not provide for relatives and especially family members has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever.
Let a widow be enrolled if she is not less than sixty years old, married only once,
with a reputation for good works, namely, that she has raised children, practiced hospitality, washed the feet of the holy ones, helped those in distress, involved herself in every good work.
But exclude younger widows, for when their sensuality estranges them from Christ, they want to marry
and will incur condemnation for breaking their first pledge.
And furthermore, they learn to be idlers, going about from house to house, and not only idlers but gossips and busybodies as well, talking about things that ought not to be mentioned.
So I would like younger widows to marry, have children, and manage a home, so as to give the adversary no pretext for maligning us.
For some have already turned away to follow Satan.
If any woman believer has widowed relatives, she must assist them; the church is not to be burdened, so that it will be able to help those who are truly widows.
Presbyters who preside well deserve double honor, especially those who toil in preaching and teaching.
For the scripture says, "You shall not muzzle an ox when it is threshing," and, "A worker deserves his pay."
Do not accept an accusation against a presbyter unless it is supported by two or three witnesses.
Reprimand publicly those who do sin, so that the rest also will be afraid.
I charge you before God and Christ Jesus and the elect angels to keep these rules without prejudice, doing nothing out of favoritism.
Do not lay hands too readily on anyone, and do not share in another's sins. Keep yourself pure.
Stop drinking only water, but have a little wine for the sake of your stomach and your frequent illnesses.
Some people's sins are public, preceding them to judgment; but other people are followed by their sins.
Similarly, good works are also public; and even those that are not cannot remain hidden.